The reason behind this is their constant irritability. When a man speaks, they do not like to listen properly. If you praise her ten qualities, she will accept and be happy, but if you mention one flaw that the man dislikes and he points it out, instead of understanding and correcting it, the woman will start arguing with that man. For such a woman, the man still holds love and respect, but he stops trying to correct or advise her, and this is the greatest foolishness and loss for the woman.
A man is not the field of a woman; rather, the woman is the field of the man. This is something women do not wish to understand.
Remember this important point: never distance yourself from that man or hurt his feelings in any way, and do not let your affection and love for him diminish, especially if he is the one who, despite numerous grievances and disagreements, sets aside his ego and anger to repeatedly come back to you, expressing his love and giving you priority even when not at fault. This is because a woman should never forget that God has instilled only ego in a man, and he thrives on it. If he values you above that ego, then you are fortunate. Never turn that ego into stubbornness or pride against him.
A woman is the peace of a man, and God has decreed that a woman should provide comfort to a man through her words, sweet speech, and presence. The man is her protector, not someone to be competed with in terms of ego. A man’s status is, in every way, higher than a woman’s.
Believe me, if you sincerely care for him even once, he will be willing to listen to you ten times over. Trust me, a man is deeply aware of a woman’s happiness, sorrow, worries, and every feeling. Even if a woman does not express it, he reads it on her face and makes every effort to ensure she is not hurt. He searches for solutions to all her troubles on his own without expressing it and usually fixes everything, but a woman, in her impatience, often misunderstands him and starts constructing ideas in her mind that the man does nothing for her. This is not true; for a man, a woman’s existence is very special, and he cannot bear to see her unhappy.
It is your duty to understand him from his eyes, as he does not always express everything in words. Some women, influenced by others’ talk, start doing unnecessary things. Please, avoid this. Others do not have to run your home; you have to make your relationship and home beautiful with your own strength and support. This is not to criticize women; these are the things that happen in every household, but no one wants to understand or explain them.
May God grant every woman a good fortune with her man. Ameen.
